Men are not and never going short of it. Every day, women suffer in the hands of men they loved and believed they were loved back.Wife beaters do not love their wives. What they call love others call control and possession. Even their jealousy, and some act extremely jealous does not stem from love but from a sense of ownership: she is mine, so no one else can have her. Keep that in mind! The same goes for respect. The hitting and the constant beatings comes from a lack of respect.Much of what they say to their wives makes them sound angry or even not right in the head. But you cannot take everything they say at face value: they lie and make up stuff just to throw her off balance. Like when they say she is seeing other men.
They beat their wives because they can get away with it, because it is how they have learned to control their wives to get what they want. Because what they want matters so much more than what their wives want. This mornig, i overheard a woman cry out as she xplained how her man came in at around 2 am, accompanied by his concubine and beat her up. He even went to the extent of snatching her wrist watch and gave it to the conc.!! He pulled and cut her hair and all this in the presence of the other woman. That i believe was madness of the highest order!! Luckily, someone offered to help the woman when she called a local radio station in every way he could. Do such people have the right to continue living out there, preying on innocent women with a sheep skin? Please ladies, watch out and try to make your man respect and appreciate you.
